Monthly Flower Task

One’s love story isn’t always “Girl meets someone, Girl falls in love, Girl fights and gets the person.” It isn’t some sort of fairy tale with happily ever after. It’s normally Girl meets frogs. TONS OF THEM. Girl filters frog. Girl is heart-broken. Sometimes, heart-broken so often, girl thinks, “will I ever have a chance?” Then one day, Girl is given advice by friends, “instead of falling for the same type who’ll break your heart, make a list of what you want. That way, you’ll have a physical memo that you can turn to when you are unsure of the person you’re dating.”

I admit it, I took that advice literally and actually wrote a list. Did I follow it? Not really. It was always in the back of my mind and sometimes, I get so blinded by sunshine, I don’t even remember the list. Recalling it, I had some ridiculous things on it. I don’t recommend making a list for anyone else since some of items are utterly outrageous. For example, my list had “I want a man with an accent, preferably British.” Really? I live in New York City, USA. The luckiest accent I’ll get is the South or New England. Oh, of course, he had to be 5’10” or up, considering the average height of American men is 5’9.5″.

And my other item was “he should shower me with a flower every month.” In a way, this task was meant for him to remember that I am not to be neglected. Gifts shouldn’t be given just for special occasions or as a “I’m sorry” bouquet. My roommate thinks I am crazy to demand so much. Is it? Maybe. But it’s better to know now that a man is willing to put up with one’s crazy antics and expectations than to find out later that he’s just not willing to please you.

Today, I carried my glass of tea with a flower in it and everyone asked about it. When I responded that it was part of my monthly gift, everyone asked, “how did you get your boyfriend to do that?” Mostly, I answered, “a friend told me you’ve got to train them early.” I laughed and added, “he thinks of it as a fun challenge.” It is not to say that it is a one-way gift exchange. A relationship, to me, has always been a two-way street.

Ever since I’ve placed the task on the table, I’ve been getting several great items that I thought was nice to share.

August

Paper Rose

From Monthly Flower Task

September

Solar charged flower

From Monthly Flower Task

October

8-bit flower

From Monthly Flower Task

November

Bookmark + Button

From Monthly Flower Task

December

Grow Edible Flowers

From Monthly Flower Task

January

Wild Hibiscus soaked in syrup

From Monthly Flower Task

February

Fruit Basket from Edible Arrangements

From Monthly Flower Task

March

Desk Daisy Paperclips

From Monthly Flower Task

April

Flowering Tea

From Monthly Flower Task

PS, he does have a British accent and is over 5’10”.

DC Cherry Blossom 2012

WWII Memorial in DC, 2012
If you’re ever adventurous and have the energy and time, New York City offers the chance to go away to a different city for the day with very cheap fares. You can go as far north as Boston or as far south as DC. Even go on a cruise to the marshlands of Far Rockaway. Or as west as the Great Lakes. Of course, it’s a long day starting with an early morning and late night.
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Tour of Sweet Eateries in the Village

It’s been awhile since I’ve made plans to go out and explore the city. Mostly, it had been dreary, cold, and a stressful start to the year. Mother nature worked out on my side as fog and rain dissipated to warmth and sun. I walked through Soho to find a beautiful public artwork on the ground. At first, my friend thought it was a circuit board but turns out, it was a subway map.
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A Slice of Pizza and Life

This weekend has been one of those weekend I wish I could take away all the bad things and keep only the good things. There are times where you wonder, what is a life? What happens after life? Will I see you again? Will I see her again? Will they remember me? Am I really just a grain in time? These are questions no one has really brought back from the grave (though some claim to but one is always/must be skeptical).

Despite the heartbreaking news of a dear friend, life does move on. In your mind and heart, you carry a memory of them. And you know they are surrounded by loved ones until the end, so there’s a sense of ease and acceptance.

Sadly, the news coincided with my pizza making class that I had booked a month ago (Groupon). I went with a heavy heart, unhappy, tired, and emotionally drained out. But the thing was, it turned out to be a good distraction. I enjoyed it more than I expected.

Slice is a local pizzeria that uses local and organic ingredients and boasts locally crafted ales and beers. Their Pizza 101 class is located in their Greenwich Village location. It’s a small little place that probably only seats 20 people and 4 bar seats. Cute and cozy, there was a constant stream of people coming and going despite it being the Superbowl night.

Class started promptly at 3. My friend and I ordered a ginger lemonade, which was a good start. Not fizzy at all and entirely homemade.

So what was the pizza we made? It was a honey whole wheat 10 inch personal.

Ingredients:

  • 2 cup whole wheat flour
  • 1 cup white bleached flour
  • Garlic salt
  • Kosher salt
  • Honey
  • Olive oil
  • Yeast
  • 1 cup warm water (more, if too dry)

The flour was already prepped so we just made an indent to pour the dry ingredients (salt). Toss it around and then add the fresh yeast. You really have to work the yeast to break it up so it doesn’t clump and cause weird rising in the dough.

Here, the teacher poured in 1 cup of warm water. We really worked the dough. At one point, I ended up standing up to knead. Why exercise when one can do some arm workouts just working pizza dough?

After kneading it until the wrinkles are gone, we rolled in into one big ball, divided it into two and cleaned the wrinkled with some water. Pour some olive oil to keep the dough soft. One was put away so we could take home. The other was put on top of a stove (do not put on hot service) so that the dough rises in half an hour. Otherwise, room temperature rise takes about 2 hours.

In the meantime, we were served with complimentary merlot wine Widow’s Walk and Asian Cabbage salad with peanut sauce. I’m allergic to most nuts so they kindly gave me hummus and pita. I was starving at this point, having been unable to eat from depression (I’m one of those people who don’t eat when I am sad), so I ordered their Flight of Pizza, which is 4 small slices of their different pizzas.


As I was finishing up, the dough came out. We were told, kitty paw the dough from center out. After which we put on a rack. We added the marinara sauce (recipe is a secret) and tossed some part skim mozzarella cheese (this is the first time I will say, more cheese would have been great) (also, I didn’t know that cheese before sauce is called a Chicago style). Then a tray of toppings were passed around: barbecue chicken, chicken sausage crumble, kalamata olives, red peppers, button mushrooms, and eggplants.



When that was put away, we were served with another glass of wine! Pumphouse red wine. Considering I’m a lightweight, at this point, I knew I wasn’t going to be able to drink anymore.

The pizza cooked for 8 minutes and voila! Honey whole wheat pizza with red peppers, olives, and eggplants!

PS, they served a third glass of wine for free.

PPS, My friend made a mini pizza. The teacher named it Darrell. He was quickly munched up.

Fire Roasted Vegetables

Living so close to Costco has been amazing and difficult. Amazing that food is so available but difficult with what I want but can’t/shouldn’t have. The task with living in New York is carting everything back and finding places to store them. How does one bring it back? I’ve yet to use what I call the “grandma cart” to haul everything back so items must be purchased sensibly.
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Sour Mango

Sour Mango
Having made the shrimp namtok with mango, I had nearly a full mango left! What to do? I know it’s not summer but I love sour mango so I used something my mom used to make for us when she wanted us to eat fruits.

It’s super sour, super spicy, and a hint of sweet all tangled together to make you sniff and crave for more. In the summer, we would make a bunch of these sour mango treats, burning our mouths, making sweat in the blazing heat yet we couldn’t stop eating it. It’s such an addiction.

It must be unhealthy! Who knows.

This recipe is not for the light of heart. You have to like spicy and sour food at the same time.

Ingredients:

  • 1 mango
  • 1/2 tbsp of sugar
  • 1 tsp of fish sauce
  • 1-2 fresh or dried chili pepper

Make sure to clean the mango thoroughly.

Sour Mango

You can always replace sour mango with sweet mango, not too ripe, and not use any sugar and it’s still great.

Sour Mango

Just chop the mango up. It doesn’t have to be perfect. Just make sure it’s small enough to munch on. When I was a kid, my mom used to cut the skin off but now I like it. Of course, the smaller the pieces, the more it absorbs the taste.

Sour Mango

Toss the peppers, fish sauce (you can always use salt), and sugar into the sliced mango bits.

Of course, you don’t have to follow the measurement exactly. It’s not some sort of science. You can add more or less of any of the ingredients. Just not by too much. My mom never taught me how to cook with measuring cups or spoons so I normally don’t know the exact measurement either. She always told me, “cook for what taste good to you.”

Shrimp namtok

Shrimp Namtok
Namtok means waterfall in Thai. Why then would a grill beef salad be called that? I’ve heard stories that the way the juices from the meat is cooked with the sauces looks like a waterfall, hence the name. In any case, I love having beef namtok in the summer. A filling cooling salad with taste!
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List: Karaoke night

Is it too stereotypical to say Asians love karaoke? Almost every Cambodian family I knew growing up in the Khmer community had a karaoke machine with those HUGE LP’s. Needless to say, every Khmer party was not complete without food (noodles, pra-hok, or hot pot), card playing, and of course, music, meaning karaoke. Sometimes I enjoy going, most times, I can’t wait to go home, snuggle in bed with a good book or movie and avoid people.
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