An old couple visiting Venice
My mother once said, “you are the one living with the person you love. So why worry if someone else loves him?”
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Digging For Diamonds
Salt rock chandelier at the Wieliczka Salt Mine, my boyfriend sent me this photo many moons ago from his travels
Diamonds don’t fall from the sky, my mother used to say. If you want something, you’ve got to get dirty and dig for them.
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What’s in the Past, Stays in the Past
It’s a real time machine!
If I knew what I know now, would I go back and do things differently? Would the path I’ve taken change or would it be the same path? Would I always end up in a complete circle of my own life?
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Traveling
Curiosity seems like a natural thing when you see babies giggling and following mobiles and playing with simple block toys. They crawl to reach for things, for places they don’t know. It seems so natural to want to learn, we want to know and we want to grow. So when I hear that someone dislikes traveling, I start to question their childhood because traveling is a form of curiosity.
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A Challenge: 30 Before 30
At 18 years old, staring at the ocean, never imaging I could get this far
I’ve been challenged! No, not to a duel. If it were so, then a duel of the mind and the pen. In this case, a keyboard. I’ve been challenged to write one blog post a day leading up to my 30th birthday. 30 posts in 30 days.
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Death and carrying on
Birth and death is the natural course of a human life yet while the West rejoice in birth and mourn death, the few funerals I attended as naive child felt more like a celebration. I was shielded by my parents from death as they’ve encountered too closely the meaning of death. It wasn’t until a year and a half ago that I had come face-to-face with it. I always thought it would be like it has been where an elderly parent would pass away and a child would pay respect by becoming a monk or nun for a time being. Instead, you begin to understand mortality and the mean of “end” when a close friend the same age as you pass away.
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List: 30 Before 30
As 30 looms around the corner, I started thinking about my goals and achievements. They say it’s a good habit to have short term goals but also to have long term goals. I’ve always put off my “what to do before 30” goals since it seemed so far away. But it creeps up on you. Suddenly, it’s in front of you.
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13 Places to Visit in 2013
Because I’m saving money for a trip with my family to Cambodia, I know I won’t be traveling too far out of New York. But the good thing is, despite the city being small, there’s a lot of to do. Many of the tourist attractions I have gone through when I first moved to New York so now I’m going through as many hidden gems as possible.
These are places I’ve visited and want to return or brand new locations that I never thought to visit before. People helped gave me some ideas and direction so I’m excited to start out my adventure this year, rambling through New York.
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2013 New Year’s Resolution
It’s that time of the year again where we can say “let’s start a new slate!”
Last year, I made a very short list and I made through with a few hiccups.
This year, continuing with last year’s resolution (health, money management, vacation), I tack on a few to help move me in my career.
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Being a Conscientious Fashion Lover
I adore fashionable items. I love buying clothes, shoes, and accessories. My walk-in closet is overflowing with things that I don’t even remember buying, some still with price tags on them. Why do I buy? Sometimes, out of boredom, sometimes out of need, sometimes, I don’t even remember why except at one point, I really wanted it.
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